I love it when I meet a parent who owns the reality that comes with raising kids. There’s the family life that we typically display on social media (image above). And then there’s every other minute of the day that we constantly attempt to keep tucked away along with the rest of the crazy we are sporting (every other photo).
Are my kids the only ones who balk annually at first day of school and Xmas card pics? Where are everyone else’s crappy kid attitude photos? Let’s just go ahead and be honest with each other. Those are the ones most of us secretly want to see anyway.
Or again, maybe not. Perhaps I’m a twisted sister, and it’s just me and my photographically belligerent crew who can’t see to figure out a happy approach to these yearly rituals.
(But I don’t think so…)
😉 Jo
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I tell my daughter “this is going on Facebook” and she smiles. But I hav3 a whole bunch of friends who don’t post pics cause there kids won’t let them….so…there you have it. Cute kids!
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How in the world could I have left that threat off my color wheel of potential tortures?? Once more your wisdom wows me. 😉 Clever girl!
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Every now and then…😉
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I’ve only got one first day of school photo, and my mother took it as I headed down the sidewalk to first grade. Yep. We walked to school, and I walked to school by myself on the first day of first grade, and that’s just the way it was. Eventually, we kids figured out who was where in the neighborhoods, and we walked together. But lines of parents in cars, dropping us off? It never happened, except in winter if it dropped below zero. I wouldn’t have traded walking to school for anything — it was great fun.
Your kids are not only nice-looking, they look like they’d be fun to know. Of course, I’m not the parent, so there’s that.
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They are actually a blast 99% of the time. Maybe 98%. But photo time falls squarely in the 2%! Ours walked with the first house but the current school is across a highway that makes the Autobahn look like the slow lane. 😉
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I must be the only mom in Americanthat didn’t take back to school pictures. Many years, I had no camera. When i did have one, I didn’t know it was a thing. Not one did that where we were growing up. When did that become a thing? And the Christmas card pictures? I must have been raised by wolves!
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We never took family photos but my mom had a Polaroid camera she would bust out every year. For two decades she took a 1st day pic. She did this long before it became a big thing. As a bonus she displayed them in a running line in our kitchen so every human in the land who entered our home would see me in all my badass 2nd grade dorkiness. Thanks again Mom!
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Sounds like you had a mom that really cared. That’s really sweet!
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She’s definitely one of the good ones. I hated the pics while I was growing up, but of course I see them very differently now (with regard to my own kids / my old pics still stink!). 😂
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I took one and it will be payed tomorrow morning. My son wouldn’t even smile! So I just posted that one. 😂
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Lol perfect!!!
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Lol, it’s great that they have spirit and are real 💕
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Yeah they do and they are. Thank you for recognizing that in them. ❤️ I always adore your ability to find the beauty. 🤗
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I always believed that children should be brought up with free speech and not suppressed to fit into what is called the norm! Your son looks easy going considering he has two sisters to put up with 😳
P.s. I dislike Facebook 😉
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Yes on all counts and I’m with you. Facebook should be called Fakebook.
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My grandchildren go back to school next week so I won’t be looking after them 😫 I already miss them! But I won’t miss getting up early 😏
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That’s the part I miss about summer! Sleeping a bit later. Soooo dreamy!
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You captured the essence of parenting…it is the truth and you take ownership haha!
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I don’t know. In that moment, I was considering releasing ownership of all three of them. 😉
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LOL! You never till..even when they are 63 years old, they will always be your precious babies!
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These gave me a great chuckle! Thank you – and your precious children – for allowing us to peer around the ‘perfect’ prop and see what’s going on behind the scenes!
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I love those naughty models of mine! 😉
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Great post
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